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What does it mean?  I was trying to think of something that represented me and John.  All of the sudden the Harry Connick Jr song popped in my head, "A wink and a smile".  Then I thought to myself... what about Elle.  We can't leave her out.  So Elle represents "the really cool hand gesture".  Kind of like a fist pump, but not a fist pump because we are from Michigan and you should only be fist pumping if you have an accent and a tan!